unsolicited advice
It is easy to let go once you’ve realized He/she
is not the right man/woman for you…
“Finding the right person is very hard and very
wrong. It is best to be the right person for the
one you love and start from there.You’ll always
end up disappointed when you set standards and
define a “right person” for you…and don’t rush
things coz somewhere somehow God is preparing
somebody for you.”
Don’t be in a hurry to get into a relationship
because you can never find love if you insist that
you are already into it. Try to find time to
really understand your real feelings, to
know who you really are, and what you really want
in a relationship.
You’re right, there’s no such thing as a perfect
relationship, but there’s a compatible
partnership that goes along with it. If you
already knew that you’re too big to fit into a
small sized t-shirt, don’t give it a try. You’ll
probably break it and pay for the damages
you have made.
If you knew and felt that the relationship will
not last, don’t go deeper into it. You’ll
just suffer the consequences and live like hell
for the rest of your life. It’s really hard
to say goodbye though, but you can’t make it any
better by just pretending you still have the same
feelings.
Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live
life to the fullest. Give yourself a chance to
grow and give your heart a much needed attention.
Then you will find that you have made the right
Decision and you made it all by yourself.
We call it love when we can’t leave someone and
see them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong,
it’s just pity.
We call it love when we’re too attached and think
that losing the one we love will somehow make us
weak and unable to face the storms of life. We
misunderstood; it’s just that we’re too much
dependent to them.
We call it love when we give our whole life to
them, the wholeness of us and imagined that if
they leave, no one would accept us and our past.
We are mistaken, its just insecurity. But no
matter what the definition is, the truth still
remains that love isn’t something you can buy or
beg. It is real and existing. You can’t
touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You
can’t find it, but it will knock before you
when you least expect it to come. It can make you
the happiest soul in heaven, but don’t forget that
it can also make you the most miserable person in
the whole galaxy.
“When you lose someone… and you think you were
the one who loved most, between the two of
you… he lost more. For someday you can love
someone the way that you loved him…But he
will never be loved again the way that you did.”
